G/F scratched new paint after only "2" days
20-Jan-2003, 10:27 AM
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Originally posted by toprotege.com
Yes there should be Respect...Fully hear you..but in a relationship
there is also compromise....she knows if she burns the seats she's
replacing them..been dating her for 2.5year and will marry her, so
our agreement is solid...burn marks=new seats
My main point was to let your girlfriend understand what she did
was really upsetting because.....(insert guilt here)
Yes there should be Respect...Fully hear you..but in a relationship
there is also compromise....she knows if she burns the seats she's
replacing them..been dating her for 2.5year and will marry her, so
our agreement is solid...burn marks=new seats
My main point was to let your girlfriend understand what she did
was really upsetting because.....(insert guilt here)
Do you?
I hope your Protege Brothers have more ***** than you
20-Jan-2003, 11:59 AM
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Originally posted by 1sicsol
I think we need a "Sams corner@TCC"
Advise....
I think we need a "Sams corner@TCC"
Advise....
I keep reading statements like. we've been together for X Years, so thats why I don't care if they really respect me or my stuff.
Grow some ***** people and learn to act like adult individuals that demand and expect Honour, Respect, and Integrity.
I suspect that some of you that have a problem with having an adult relationship.
I don't want to act like I'm teaching kindergarten and have to explain why I'm nuances of why I'm upset when the reasons are quite obvious. eg "You burned my seats" OR "You scratched my paint"
I suspect some of you treat their partners like little kids
You probably talk to your partners like little kids with baby talk when you talk to them on the phone and you never hold them accountable for their actions.
The fact is that your partner is probably a grown adult, and should be treated like an adult.
This means, accountability for their actions.
You should expect the same respect from your partner as you do from your friends.
If I ask a friend not to smoke in the car, I am sure they won't
If my paint gets scratched, my friends will understand that I'm upset, and I'm allowed to be.
20-Jan-2003, 06:31 PM
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OUCH GUY! you took this interesting post and made it super UN-FUN!
I would go on to explain ...but i everything i say seems to be getting cut up.
Just for the record, She smokes in my car I dont' like it...but DAM it's not the end of the world....especally nothing to base a full loving and really happy relationship on.
and Jook i've met you before at the one meet us protege people came too...you were such a nice guy to meet with a nice ride to match....what turned you so mean?
I would go on to explain ...but i everything i say seems to be getting cut up.
Just for the record, She smokes in my car I dont' like it...but DAM it's not the end of the world....especally nothing to base a full loving and really happy relationship on.
and Jook i've met you before at the one meet us protege people came too...you were such a nice guy to meet with a nice ride to match....what turned you so mean?
21-Jan-2003, 01:54 AM
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Originally posted by toprotege.com
Jook i've met you before at the one meet us protege people came too...you were such a nice guy to meet with a nice ride to match....what turned you so mean?
Jook i've met you before at the one meet us protege people came too...you were such a nice guy to meet with a nice ride to match....what turned you so mean?
But rather the sheppard of my fellow brothers.
And as one man to another, calling a spade a spade.
You are being "straight up" disrespected by your woman everytime she lights up in your car. No ands, ifs or buts!
If you don't put your foot down, you allow and condone her to perpetuate a pattern of behaviour where your respect is negotiable. Which is totally unacceptable in a balanced healthy relationship.
21-Jan-2003, 09:23 AM
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Originally posted by JookSingKid
Not Un-mean dude.
But rather the sheppard of my fellow brothers.
And as one man to another, calling a spade a spade.
You are being "straight up" disrespected by your woman everytime she lights up in your car. No ands, ifs or buts!
If you don't put your foot down, you allow and condone her to perpetuate a pattern of behaviour where your respect is negotiable. Which is totally unacceptable in a balanced healthy relationship.
Not Un-mean dude.
But rather the sheppard of my fellow brothers.
And as one man to another, calling a spade a spade.
You are being "straight up" disrespected by your woman everytime she lights up in your car. No ands, ifs or buts!
If you don't put your foot down, you allow and condone her to perpetuate a pattern of behaviour where your respect is negotiable. Which is totally unacceptable in a balanced healthy relationship.
21-Jan-2003, 11:34 AM
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Originally posted by toprotege.com
I'm going to have to agree to disagree with you on this one Jook
I'm going to have to agree to disagree with you on this one Jook
Do you think everytime she lites up in YOUR car, you're "compromising" Thus being a good boyfriend?
21-Jan-2003, 01:03 PM
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She's Does everything for me...but the most she does is give me support with all my endevors...
She smokes in the ride and i don't like it.....I have to learn to deal
Relationship is a give and take thing...if you make every rule solid you'll be one un-happy pair...some rules stick and some don't you have to deal..
That's what i'm saying about compromise, she does things for me and i do things for her...she let me get away with certin things and i let her get away with things too...like smoking in the car
Ok...i'm done here...
She smokes in the ride and i don't like it.....I have to learn to deal
Relationship is a give and take thing...if you make every rule solid you'll be one un-happy pair...some rules stick and some don't you have to deal..
That's what i'm saying about compromise, she does things for me and i do things for her...she let me get away with certin things and i let her get away with things too...like smoking in the car
Ok...i'm done here...
21-Jan-2003, 02:05 PM
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wow... if i asked my girl not to smoke in my car and she did..... i would have to stop...and show her the door
if you're mom asked me not to smoke in your house... and i lit up in front of her.... that would be disrespect.... right?
so how is your girl smoking in your car ..AFTER you asked her not to any different???
sorry... but sam's got a valid point here
if you're mom asked me not to smoke in your house... and i lit up in front of her.... that would be disrespect.... right?
so how is your girl smoking in your car ..AFTER you asked her not to any different???
sorry... but sam's got a valid point here
21-Jan-2003, 02:12 PM
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WORD!!! Relationships are give and take. She gives, and I take. 
But seriously, JSK has some valid points. People like animals follow patterns, and if you let them get away with something once they will continue to push thier luck, and the limits of you anger. If you put your foot down once, and make it very clear that something is not allowed they will know from then on that it is unacceptable. Next thing you know, your G/F will be leting her friends smoke in the car.
But seriously, JSK has some valid points. People like animals follow patterns, and if you let them get away with something once they will continue to push thier luck, and the limits of you anger. If you put your foot down once, and make it very clear that something is not allowed they will know from then on that it is unacceptable. Next thing you know, your G/F will be leting her friends smoke in the car.
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