Just A Question
29-Apr-2003, 10:12 AM
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Originally posted by harper
Cosmic Girl: yeah i can see where ur coming from, harper never uses his account so i use it, the acount was mainly created to post his car up for sale, which i did for him because he is too busy with work and things, and this site grew on me, and because i am too lazy to make a new account, and he never uses his, i post under his name and he doesnt care @ all.
Cosmic Girl: yeah i can see where ur coming from, harper never uses his account so i use it, the acount was mainly created to post his car up for sale, which i did for him because he is too busy with work and things, and this site grew on me, and because i am too lazy to make a new account, and he never uses his, i post under his name and he doesnt care @ all.
Let the advice continue then
29-Apr-2003, 10:19 AM
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Originally posted by harper
hahahaha, well ill stick to MY instincts for now, if im wrong, iou a coffee :P
hahahaha, well ill stick to MY instincts for now, if im wrong, iou a coffee :P
thanx!
29-Apr-2003, 01:02 PM
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Not to give you any bad ideas but I agree with bb that you should be looking for someone else. After being with someone for so long obviously you are very attached for him. It may be hard to admit but maybe your afraid of being alone or him being with someone else? I still stick with my suggestion of going out with your girls and not shutting down every guy that approaches you. Just let them know your seeing someone right now but you are looking
. Obviously right after this incident he isnt gonna be trying to sneak around, but give it a week or 2 and you will start to notice him being out more and stuff. I just hope you dont get hurt again, because after the first time it only gets worse. So take care and take Buff n Stuff out for a coffee.
Chris
. Obviously right after this incident he isnt gonna be trying to sneak around, but give it a week or 2 and you will start to notice him being out more and stuff. I just hope you dont get hurt again, because after the first time it only gets worse. So take care and take Buff n Stuff out for a coffee.Chris
29-Apr-2003, 01:10 PM
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So take care and take Buff n Stuff out for a coffee.
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Chris (yep, me too! haha
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29-Apr-2003, 10:49 PM
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i wasnt implying anything moreChris i like your idea of keeping options open while being with him, i just dont chill with girls all that often, i find big groups of chicks bring on stupid rumors and fights, where when i hang out with guys it may be a bit harder to pick up other guys, but its MUCH more fun. I may keep options open for now until i can be sure that things wont blow up in my face again.
29-Apr-2003, 11:01 PM
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Yeah girls can be pretty vicious at times, they tend to make everything personal where guys just beat each other up and its done. You could always get your guy friends to leave u alone so u can get picked up by a guy, or take charge and approach guys who catch ur eye. Do you have like a best girlfriend or something? go with her to a mall and just check out alot of guys and see how many numbers you can get. Good luck with everything
29-Apr-2003, 11:09 PM
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haha oh yeah i remember the single days of guy shopping at the mall with like my bestfriend.
my guy friends enjoy making an *** out of me, one loves me off so hes with me no matter what, but i could never see him as someone i'd date, hes more of a big bro but yeah! thanks for the luck
my guy friends enjoy making an *** out of me, one loves me off so hes with me no matter what, but i could never see him as someone i'd date, hes more of a big bro but yeah! thanks for the luck
30-Apr-2003, 04:30 AM
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Here's some food for thought.....
An Italian friend once told me.....
Don't hate me, my friend told me that.
Remember your own words.....
Doesn't sound like you're willing to trust him 100%. Do you really want to live like that?
Sorry, but I don't see a happy ending, but that's just me.
An Italian friend once told me.....
Women are like floor tiles........if you lay them right, you can walk all over them for the rest of your life.
Remember your own words.....
so im layin back, but i still keep my eye out.
Sorry, but I don't see a happy ending, but that's just me.
30-Apr-2003, 11:37 PM
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yeah ive heard that saying before and no offence taken.
No matter what when theres an ending to us it isnt going to be happy, im attached to him so whatever happens its going to hit me hard. i trust him, but if i were to hear about **** like that happening again, there would be no second chance, u can hold me to that, but im pretty confident it wont.
No matter what when theres an ending to us it isnt going to be happy, im attached to him so whatever happens its going to hit me hard. i trust him, but if i were to hear about **** like that happening again, there would be no second chance, u can hold me to that, but im pretty confident it wont.
11-May-2003, 09:07 PM
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Buff N Stuff, IOU a coffee
next time im listening, he just walked all over me **** HIM
next time im listening, he just walked all over me **** HIM
11-May-2003, 09:30 PM
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yeah basically, he didnt cheat on me, didnt touch a girl, but he dumped me an 5 mins later hooked up with his 15 yr old ex beth. and his friend greg fucked my best friend ashley over too, cheating on her with his 15 y/o ex melissa.
he called and i asked why he was being such an *** lately (yesterday was my fathers 5th death anniversary, and my 15y/o sister just had a baby) and he ***** me over. I asked him if he was dumping me and hes like "yeah!" all happy n **** but this time there aint no tears, im pissed, and hes beggin to be my friend just cause he knows i can charge him with $10,000 worth of bank fraud on my mothers account, so **** him he doesnt know what he just did, he doesnt know what hes missin.
he called and i asked why he was being such an *** lately (yesterday was my fathers 5th death anniversary, and my 15y/o sister just had a baby) and he ***** me over. I asked him if he was dumping me and hes like "yeah!" all happy n **** but this time there aint no tears, im pissed, and hes beggin to be my friend just cause he knows i can charge him with $10,000 worth of bank fraud on my mothers account, so **** him he doesnt know what he just did, he doesnt know what hes missin.
11-May-2003, 10:15 PM
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I just read this entire thread for the first time...better than a soap opera
sorry things didnt work out....and one question...WHY THE **** would u spend 10 g's on a GUY that ur not ...well married to!
(i havent had good luck wit men in my day as u can tell)
sorry things didnt work out....and one question...WHY THE **** would u spend 10 g's on a GUY that ur not ...well married to!
(i havent had good luck wit men in my day as u can tell)
11-May-2003, 10:22 PM
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lol i didnt, he scammed the **** out of my moms account for that money, thats what the 10 gs were, it was partly me, but he had a huge influence on it, and he would get hit harder than me cause its his account n **** and should have been old enough to stop things from happening..
just to give you a taste of how pissed i am, and what i said to him when he called me again, heres bits of an msn convo...
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
he called me AGAIn
*(089,089,255)~¤°Queen-B°¤~im dun bein ur brejin..u kan shuv it up ur *** says:
whatd he say
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
i pick up like "what do u want" hes like whoa calm down which set me off again like WTF!? whoa calm down, u just fucked me over buddy, im not calming down, hell im ready 2 blow ur ******* house 2 peices so dont even and hes like ok ok but i want to be friends n ****, im like FRIENDS!? wtf, **** u u **** me over n u wana b friends?! i just wasted 15 months on ur ***, u pathetic bitch, next time if
*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
ur guna go and **** around, have the ***** to dump me first u ******, and he was like wtf, just calm down ur scaring me. i started laughing my *** off, and im like look, u wana talk when im calm, call me in a few months
an his excuse for dumpingme, was i wouldnt let him hang out with girls. i was like WTF?! are u stupid? if u wanted to hang out with other chicks all u had 2 do is tell me, not lie like a ****** bitch get sum ***** for **** sakes, i told u tell me straight up and im cool, and hes like well yesterday u were all quiet n **** thats y i went 2 ashleys, im like buddy, 5th year anniversary for my dad..
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
did u think i was guna b all, LETS GET DRUNK, like wtf?
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
well he can go **** his 15 y/o g/f whos ugly as **** it just makes me laugh
*(089,089,255)~¤°Queen-B°¤~im dun bein ur brejin..u kan shuv it up ur *** says:
hes goin out with a nex guyrl
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
i think hes stupid like that, hes guna regret it in like 5 days but this time im not guna b there
*(089,089,255)~¤°Queen-B°¤~im dun bein ur brejin..u kan shuv it up ur *** says:
goodjob
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
im not riskin breakin my heart for a third time for an insensitive ****, ugh kick my *** nex time u see me for hooking back up with him the last time he did this
ugh each time he breaks it off (2nd time hes done it) he tried looking all big and bad thinking its cool to make me cry but this time im not crying, im not wasting tears for someone attempting to rip my heart out for a laugh in front of his buddies.
just to give you a taste of how pissed i am, and what i said to him when he called me again, heres bits of an msn convo...
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
he called me AGAIn
*(089,089,255)~¤°Queen-B°¤~im dun bein ur brejin..u kan shuv it up ur *** says:
whatd he say
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
i pick up like "what do u want" hes like whoa calm down which set me off again like WTF!? whoa calm down, u just fucked me over buddy, im not calming down, hell im ready 2 blow ur ******* house 2 peices so dont even and hes like ok ok but i want to be friends n ****, im like FRIENDS!? wtf, **** u u **** me over n u wana b friends?! i just wasted 15 months on ur ***, u pathetic bitch, next time if
*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
ur guna go and **** around, have the ***** to dump me first u ******, and he was like wtf, just calm down ur scaring me. i started laughing my *** off, and im like look, u wana talk when im calm, call me in a few months
an his excuse for dumpingme, was i wouldnt let him hang out with girls. i was like WTF?! are u stupid? if u wanted to hang out with other chicks all u had 2 do is tell me, not lie like a ****** bitch get sum ***** for **** sakes, i told u tell me straight up and im cool, and hes like well yesterday u were all quiet n **** thats y i went 2 ashleys, im like buddy, 5th year anniversary for my dad..
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
did u think i was guna b all, LETS GET DRUNK, like wtf?
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
well he can go **** his 15 y/o g/f whos ugly as **** it just makes me laugh
*(089,089,255)~¤°Queen-B°¤~im dun bein ur brejin..u kan shuv it up ur *** says:
hes goin out with a nex guyrl
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
i think hes stupid like that, hes guna regret it in like 5 days but this time im not guna b there
*(089,089,255)~¤°Queen-B°¤~im dun bein ur brejin..u kan shuv it up ur *** says:
goodjob
~*båbý*gî®l*~ says:
im not riskin breakin my heart for a third time for an insensitive ****, ugh kick my *** nex time u see me for hooking back up with him the last time he did this
ugh each time he breaks it off (2nd time hes done it) he tried looking all big and bad thinking its cool to make me cry but this time im not crying, im not wasting tears for someone attempting to rip my heart out for a laugh in front of his buddies.
11-May-2003, 10:34 PM
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whoa ... well even though I've been following this .. the whole thread seems juicier while on really strong medication ...(that could just be the drugs talk)
I'm glad to see you took a step in the right direction .... it's time to enjoy your freedom now
I'm glad to see you took a step in the right direction .... it's time to enjoy your freedom now
11-May-2003, 10:37 PM
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Hey,
if you need to talk about this add me to msn MS_2_Scarlem@hotmail.com. I am really sorry to hear that this happened and you dont deserve to cry over such an *******. Hopefully I can help you through this.
Chris
if you need to talk about this add me to msn MS_2_Scarlem@hotmail.com. I am really sorry to hear that this happened and you dont deserve to cry over such an *******. Hopefully I can help you through this.
Chris
11-May-2003, 10:46 PM
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hahaha thanks guys it makes me feel A LOT better to have the support, i feel like such an idiot to let him run over me ugh
11-May-2003, 10:54 PM
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wow, what a long thread..
sorry to hear things didn't work out erin... but he wasn't treating you with the respect you deserve so you don't need him, you can find someone better!
how did you scam 10K from your mom's account?! shiet this guy does not sound like it was worth it to spend all that money on him...
whether he was cheating or not, he should've been totally honest with you when you asked him where he was and ****... if he was just "friends" wit that gurl then why couldn't he jst come out and tell you the truth instead of making up lies?
if you ask me, i think you're better off without him.. go out and find someone better!! chill wit da gurls and forget bout him!
i hope you're feeling better and things have cooled down wit you and this situation... i dunno how long ago this was, but i wish you all the best!!
sorry to hear things didn't work out erin... but he wasn't treating you with the respect you deserve so you don't need him, you can find someone better!
how did you scam 10K from your mom's account?! shiet this guy does not sound like it was worth it to spend all that money on him...
whether he was cheating or not, he should've been totally honest with you when you asked him where he was and ****... if he was just "friends" wit that gurl then why couldn't he jst come out and tell you the truth instead of making up lies?
if you ask me, i think you're better off without him.. go out and find someone better!! chill wit da gurls and forget bout him!
i hope you're feeling better and things have cooled down wit you and this situation... i dunno how long ago this was, but i wish you all the best!!
11-May-2003, 11:16 PM
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aw thanks
yeah my mom sold a house in the summer and had about 52 gs in her account, he got a hold of some cheques and there we go, cheque after cheque went into his account
yeah hes an idiot for lying after i made it clear so many times im cool with things if im told straight up, but having to hear it from friends, or from him later, just sets me off but whatever its over! im happy! free and going to enjoy myself
yeah my mom sold a house in the summer and had about 52 gs in her account, he got a hold of some cheques and there we go, cheque after cheque went into his account
yeah hes an idiot for lying after i made it clear so many times im cool with things if im told straight up, but having to hear it from friends, or from him later, just sets me off but whatever its over! im happy! free and going to enjoy myself
12-May-2003, 12:16 AM
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Originally posted by harper
aw thanks
yeah my mom sold a house in the summer and had about 52 gs in her account, he got a hold of some cheques and there we go, cheque after cheque went into his account
yeah hes an idiot for lying after i made it clear so many times im cool with things if im told straight up, but having to hear it from friends, or from him later, just sets me off but whatever its over! im happy! free and going to enjoy myself
aw thanks
yeah my mom sold a house in the summer and had about 52 gs in her account, he got a hold of some cheques and there we go, cheque after cheque went into his account
yeah hes an idiot for lying after i made it clear so many times im cool with things if im told straight up, but having to hear it from friends, or from him later, just sets me off but whatever its over! im happy! free and going to enjoy myself
you mean she didn't even notice 10K missing from her account? dang, wish i was in your situation, i wouldn't be able to control myself... multiple shopping sprees baybee!! hehe
that's what you should do after this whole ordeal--go treat yourself to a shopping spree
yeah he was a jerk... and now he'll see how good he had it, too bad for him!! his loss!
