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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:05 PM
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i keep sayin how technically we were broken up, and she keeps sayin im a jackass and we werent really broken up
They always do this, and they are full of ****.
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:11 PM
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Sounds like a Ross/Rachel episode on Friends.
 
Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:12 PM
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thats why you dont get a girlfriend. Saves you money and the headaches.


If I was you, i'd start nailing the other broad again. Its your best bet
its cheaper to have a gf than to be single brotha man
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:13 PM
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Originally posted by Double_B
Sounds like a Ross/Rachel episode on Friends.
YOU WERE ON A BREAK!!!
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:13 PM
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And you act as if guys dont really cheat on their girlfriends on a regular basis and that they are any better than girls
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:16 PM
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when it happened with the other girl, i really wasnt with this one at the time, like it was when the only talking we did was "hi whats up nothing much u ok cool bye" on msn

i didnt really lie to her about anyhting. when she started butchering me for an answer i avoided it and tried to get some recon from her friend which backfired.

i think shes a little crazy, that happened over a year ago, we werent even going out, we were just starting to talk
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:17 PM
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Originally posted by Cynikal.Mindset


its cheaper to have a gf than to be single brotha man
thats so true, a lot cheaper to have a gf than to be single
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:19 PM
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It depends ... :cry:
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thats so true, a lot cheaper to have a gf than to be single
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:21 PM
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when it happened with the other girl, i really wasnt with this one at the time, like it was when the only talking we did was "hi whats up nothing much u ok cool bye" on msn

i didnt really lie to her about anyhting. when she started butchering me for an answer i avoided it and tried to get some recon from her friend which backfired.

i think shes a little crazy, that happened over a year ago, we werent even going out, we were just starting to talk
Tell her that you telling her is just going to cause a problem and if she really wants to know, it shows she dont trust you therefore the relationship will NEVER EVER work without trust.

So you might as well let her move on, because I couldn't picture spending my life with someone who always had something (in their eyes) to hang over my head and pester me about, what i did, that time when we broke up.... Its just something that makes the relationship stressfull.
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:24 PM
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oh and trying to talk to her wont work
she talks too much and i dont understand half the **** she says and then after she explains it she asks a questions and i cant think of a good answer quickly enough and stuff and its so boring
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:25 PM
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email them both in the same email and tell them you're blocking them on msn and tell them you would appreciate if they did not to interfere with Jennifer, the woman you've just realized is perfect for you.
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:26 PM
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u started off with lies and now they bit u in the ***. what did you expect? if i were u, i'd apologize to her for what she most likely see as cheating as you two were techinically back together when you were fooling around with bitch number 2. just apologize and if she is still mad, then you have nothing left to do. all the flowers and restaurants in the world wont make her change her mind. that just means you are trying to buy her back after making a mistake. let her forgive you, or it will be held over you for the rest of your life and even if you guys get back together, it will be thrown in your face over and over (unless of course she does in fact forgive you). seems like you really like the girl, but if you truely did which is why i don't understand that in the process of reconciling with her, you fooled around with another girl. more then likely it was because you were serving yourself be hooking up with 2 so that if oen doesnt work out, u'd still have the other to fall back on.
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:26 PM
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Originally posted by Bruce Fee
email them both in the same email and tell them you're blocking them on msn and tell them you would appreciate if they did not to interfere with Jennifer, the woman you've just realized is perfect for you.
 
Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:27 PM
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She ain't worth the problems bud. I had a girl like that b4 and I just told here to hit the road. Too much bull****.
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:28 PM
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^id love to do that, but i like her and ****
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:29 PM
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^ i dont understand soccer nuts's comment. it was his mistake. he brought the problems in himself.
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:30 PM
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Boprah says, "You need to get in touch with your femanine side, untap that part of you that you have ignored for so long. Then and only then, little Bohprah, will you know the truth of relationships"
 
Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:32 PM
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one other comment:
you got into this whole situation as a result of a stupid lie, and now you don't care if you have to lie again to get out of it? maybe you should think that over.
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:36 PM
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i didnt really lie about anything, i just withheld the truth for a bit

and i dont care if i gotta lie, as long as itll fix this. im looking for a quick easy fix.
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Old 22-Mar-2006, 12:40 PM
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and omission fo truth is the reason why she is mad at you. girls dont think liek us. to her it's a lie. and i doubt there is a quick easy fix for this situation because whatever happens rests solely on her shoulders
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