pinkcivicchick

iTrader: (-1)

So.. I have to make some important decisions very shortly.

1. Would you move to a place that you can follow and reach your career goals, BUT a bit scared to move and get out of your comfort zone, and it would be a huge culture shock and a lot of adapting to do.

2. Stay in your comfort zone where you truly love to be but less opportunity for advancement.

Goals vs. Comfortness

imported_DOHCTOR

Make your choice based on lifestyle what choice would allow you to spend your free time doin what you want

imported_2join performance

I say go for goals. Your comfort zone is just an illusion, and I have many times in my life thought I was "comfortable", and when it came time to move on I was reluctant. Only later did I realize how much better off I was by stepping outside my comfort zone. You need to do that every once in a while I believe to stay sane.

For all you know, the new place you may be headed might just be better in terms of goals AND comfort.

imported_viper_2_4

comfort zone is weak, you'll learn to be comfortable wherever you go (within reason)...

Cynikal.Mindset

where do u need to move to? if its something rediculous like cambodia F-DAT!

but if its reasonable...like anywhere other than boring North Bay, like Toronto...DO IT!!!!

Jay P

moving to toronto ftw

Gallagher

it really isn't a culture shock. Your moving 2 hours down the road. Common

Cantonagod

You could always go back if it doesn't work.

Double_B

Exactly, you don't want to be saying later in life, "I should have done this". Don't sit around and wait, take your chance and run with it. I more or less did that when I moved here from Montreal, and I haven't looked back.

Nova_Dust

Asia?

imported_Bruce Fee

based on the clear and definite options in the questions, i would have to go with one of the options with single digits.

definitely

RDub99

iTrader: (1)

go for the goals.. I think you will get used to the new place with time..

imported_gatherer

stay where it's comfortable .. don't ever step outside your bounds .. thats how you get hurt

imported_Red Fury Civic

Vic do what you feel is right if you have had your hart set on it for a while then you have to do it for your self and no one else if you don't it will bug you for the rest of your life

just my 2 cents

pinkcivicchick

iTrader: (-1)

Yah true dat.. Hum.. If I move to GTA I am thinking about getting a one year mortgage and see how I like it, if Toronto is ****ty then I'll move back to North Bay I think.... Hey Steve you don't think it won't be a huge culture shock?! Come on look at North Bay, there is no diversity in culture! Definately culture shock

imported_nnniiiccckkk007

what if your goal is comfortness?

imported_JoonyaSI

LMFAO ! cuture shock in toronto ...wow .. yall booooners are really shelterd ....

but yea ... this relates to my topic a few days back .. id just make the move .. its not like its a new country .. we all speak english here in toronto

imported_viper_2_4

sounds like the move would be a good experience for you

imported_Shazza

haha! not true.

i can see how toronto can be a culture shock but not a huge one. when i go to smaller cities, it's a culture shock too cuz there 's only white ppl and it feels so eerie.

arent u asian? haha! how ironic then if toronto is a culture shock. welcome to china city!

i say move. toronto isnt that far...i mean c'mon now...you're still in ontario and it's not like you have to learn a different language. a lot of ppl that i know from smaller towns that moved to t.o. at first said they would eventually move back, but now they say there's no way they can go back to living in small towns.

move on up, yo. it's prolly for the best. change is exciting!

J-SKI

thought about posting then realized we're talking about moving from north bay to t.o. This really isn't a tuff one to figure out!!!

For the record: PremiumDude had the best advice to offer in this thread in my opinion.