Marriage/Long Term Releationship Question???
09-Dec-2005, 12:57 AM
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Marriage/Long Term Releationship Question???
So anyways I always had this question in my head and wondered what other people would say to this....
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Would you ever consider dating, serious long term relation or even marry a girl that was in a **** video. I am sure every one has seen the Girls Gone Wild video's, bangbus, cumfiesta etc...they arent exactly main stream like playboy, hustler etc but they are still in them and these are your everyday college girls, girls that you see on the street when you drive by, girls you see at party's etc...So would you feel comfortable dating them or even marrying them knowing that anyone can just come up to you from your friends to your parents to someone on the road and be like you girl was in a porno blah blah blah
So whats everyone take on this?? Would you?
Me? HELL NO. Just cuz I dont want any of my friends/parents/relatives to see her naked banging someone else or doing other sexual acts. Or even people on the street eye'in her cuz they know her from say a **** video....
Also remeber I am not talking about pornstars I am talking about normal everyday girls that do it.
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Would you ever consider dating, serious long term relation or even marry a girl that was in a **** video. I am sure every one has seen the Girls Gone Wild video's, bangbus, cumfiesta etc...they arent exactly main stream like playboy, hustler etc but they are still in them and these are your everyday college girls, girls that you see on the street when you drive by, girls you see at party's etc...So would you feel comfortable dating them or even marrying them knowing that anyone can just come up to you from your friends to your parents to someone on the road and be like you girl was in a porno blah blah blah
So whats everyone take on this?? Would you?
Me? HELL NO. Just cuz I dont want any of my friends/parents/relatives to see her naked banging someone else or doing other sexual acts. Or even people on the street eye'in her cuz they know her from say a **** video....
Also remeber I am not talking about pornstars I am talking about normal everyday girls that do it.
09-Dec-2005, 01:13 AM
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Nope to the relationship...would i try to have my way with her, probably.
usually girls like that are the ones you dont want to date or be with anyway..the un-datable...i call them party girls.
we need some TCC girls opinions on this
usually girls like that are the ones you dont want to date or be with anyway..the un-datable...i call them party girls.
we need some TCC girls opinions on this
09-Dec-2005, 01:17 AM
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me neither.
09-Dec-2005, 01:25 AM
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definitely not for something long term or serious like marriage..... short-term, casual, domestic... yeah... just make sure she's all safe... and no disease...
09-Dec-2005, 01:30 AM
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*WARNING FOR LANGUAGE*
So the girls you are dating now are all virgins? They have never been video taped, double teamed, tied up, had their photos taken, naked in public, defaced, demoralized, etc? They are all as pure as the driven snow right? BS!
Women have many skeletons in their closets that you will never know about. I know my wife has been in a few of the situations I mentioned, but shes married to me now and the past is the past.
So the girls you are dating now are all virgins? They have never been video taped, double teamed, tied up, had their photos taken, naked in public, defaced, demoralized, etc? They are all as pure as the driven snow right? BS!
Women have many skeletons in their closets that you will never know about. I know my wife has been in a few of the situations I mentioned, but shes married to me now and the past is the past.
09-Dec-2005, 01:37 AM
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Originally posted by DumbasSi
*WARNING FOR LANGUAGE*
So the girls you are dating now are all virgins? They have never been video taped, double teamed, tied up, had their photos taken, naked in public, defaced, demoralized, etc? They are all as pure as the driven snow right? BS!
Women have many skeletons in their closets that you will never know about. I know my wife has been in a few of the situations I mentioned, but shes married to me now and the past is the past.
*WARNING FOR LANGUAGE*
So the girls you are dating now are all virgins? They have never been video taped, double teamed, tied up, had their photos taken, naked in public, defaced, demoralized, etc? They are all as pure as the driven snow right? BS!
Women have many skeletons in their closets that you will never know about. I know my wife has been in a few of the situations I mentioned, but shes married to me now and the past is the past.
sure your wife could have done this and could have done that or been there and done whatever that still doesnt mean that I or anyone here can find out about her in any way especially if it was say like a home video unless it was released to the public..
I am talking about those girls you see on cumfiesta, allinternal, blah blah blah like those girls are in their 20's obviously they will eventually settle down....but my question is would you settle down with a girl like that???
Which then makes me wonder with all these vid's and pics and blah blah blah there are over millions and millions of girls that do it too so where the HELL do they end up finding whomever to settle down with? arent they worried it might surface up if they hide it from their partner?
09-Dec-2005, 01:38 AM
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p.s. WARNING FOR LANGUAGE??!??? LOL wtf was that for???
your post was like G rated.
did that post make you feel like a rebel?? LOL
your post was like G rated.
did that post make you feel like a rebel?? LOL
09-Dec-2005, 01:41 AM
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^ just IMO but girls that do that kinda stuff dont really have a mind of their own, they are jsut following wats cool and wats hip and what the guys want etc.... says a lot about who they are..
not all of course, jsut in general
not all of course, jsut in general
09-Dec-2005, 01:51 AM
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yup definately agree what you are saying.
but what you also have to understand is that stereotyping is something that is human nature.
she could have been the nicest girl in the world she could have been caught up with the wrong group of friends and did something one time that she really regrets doing and you can understand her for it and accept her but what about everyone else? like your parents, relatives, friends, people on the street...when they see her the first impression is she was in a **** blah blah blah and that automatically brands her as a ***** and also a sex symbol instead of a human being would you be able to accept her knowing that while your talking to your friends at a party you are hosting with your wife or girlfriend that they are thinking of her in a sexual way???
but what you also have to understand is that stereotyping is something that is human nature.
she could have been the nicest girl in the world she could have been caught up with the wrong group of friends and did something one time that she really regrets doing and you can understand her for it and accept her but what about everyone else? like your parents, relatives, friends, people on the street...when they see her the first impression is she was in a **** blah blah blah and that automatically brands her as a ***** and also a sex symbol instead of a human being would you be able to accept her knowing that while your talking to your friends at a party you are hosting with your wife or girlfriend that they are thinking of her in a sexual way???
09-Dec-2005, 01:56 AM
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^ yep. thats why i said just in general
thats just what i think, and im sure a lot of people think that too. and i know for sure a lot of people dont ask "what if...." and they just judge instead
thats just what i think, and im sure a lot of people think that too. and i know for sure a lot of people dont ask "what if...." and they just judge instead
09-Dec-2005, 01:59 AM
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It doesn't matter in my mind what a girl did her past. If your present relationship with her is good and you want to go long term, you shouldn't think about other people and what other people think, just ****ing do what you want.
Because thats what it boils down to. The two people involved.
Because thats what it boils down to. The two people involved.
09-Dec-2005, 02:00 AM
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^^^definately a good point.
09-Dec-2005, 03:03 AM
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09-Dec-2005, 03:08 AM
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if you can live with a loose birth canal then so be it !!!!!
09-Dec-2005, 03:49 AM
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how dod they get married?
i'm sure some of them get pregnant and tell the guy they're keeping it. hahahaha
honestly, the past is the past.. so long as she doesn't lie about it and you find out later(the hard way), i don't see the big deal.
i'm sure some of them get pregnant and tell the guy they're keeping it. hahahaha
honestly, the past is the past.. so long as she doesn't lie about it and you find out later(the hard way), i don't see the big deal.
09-Dec-2005, 04:49 AM
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to answer your question... no. i've dated a couple girls with a "wild side"... not THAT wild, but even that was too much of a headache for me. yeah, the sex was great, but that is all it was- can't speak for others, but i need more than just that out of a relationship. i married my wife because we have a lot in common and she is someone who makes me a better person whenever we are together. i enjoy sharing life with her and i know i'll never want to be with someone else.
09-Dec-2005, 10:12 AM
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No i definetely do it. Id be embarssed to call someone like that my wife. A woman like that IMO is more likely to cheat on ya..... and what if your daughter turns out be like her mother?? I would loose my mind lol
09-Dec-2005, 10:14 AM
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Originally posted by weiRtech
to answer your question... no. i've dated a couple girls with a "wild side"... not THAT wild, but even that was too much of a headache for me. yeah, the sex was great, but that is all it was- can't speak for others, but i need more than just that out of a relationship. i married my wife because we have a lot in common and she is someone who makes me a better person whenever we are together. i enjoy sharing life with her and i know i'll never want to be with someone else.
to answer your question... no. i've dated a couple girls with a "wild side"... not THAT wild, but even that was too much of a headache for me. yeah, the sex was great, but that is all it was- can't speak for others, but i need more than just that out of a relationship. i married my wife because we have a lot in common and she is someone who makes me a better person whenever we are together. i enjoy sharing life with her and i know i'll never want to be with someone else.
was she by any chance in the same room when u were typing this???
