Long Distance Relationships
23-Jan-2004, 12:37 PM
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Long Distance Relationships
Okay...first i have to start this with..why do the best guys come at the worst times? (or girls...)
Long distance relationships are really really difficult. Ive been hearing long distance horror stories everywhere. However, I think I may be one of the lucky ones.
~Illest Civ~ I love you! and Happy Anniversary! We've made it this long.
Nothing will stop us now. (which is the plan lol)
But I must say long distance relationships suck!!!! man...here i am.. on my anniversary...and forget getting eachother gifts or going out together..LOL.
i can't even give him a kiss. On top of that, our schedules are so messed up today that i probably won't even talk to him til tomorrow. So, I clearly know that this site is one of his favourite places to be online when he gets home. So, ill civ, i love you and i miss you, and i hope this makes you smile.
Long distance relationships are really really difficult. Ive been hearing long distance horror stories everywhere. However, I think I may be one of the lucky ones.
~Illest Civ~ I love you! and Happy Anniversary! We've made it this long.
Nothing will stop us now. (which is the plan lol)
But I must say long distance relationships suck!!!! man...here i am.. on my anniversary...and forget getting eachother gifts or going out together..LOL.
i can't even give him a kiss. On top of that, our schedules are so messed up today that i probably won't even talk to him til tomorrow. So, I clearly know that this site is one of his favourite places to be online when he gets home. So, ill civ, i love you and i miss you, and i hope this makes you smile.
23-Jan-2004, 12:40 PM
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damn i thought my relationship from rexdale > hamilton was far away...NYC to Brampton? that's some crazy ****. I'd definatley need therapy after going without sex so long...or at least a HUUUUUUUUGE collection of **** 
I been with my gf for almost 3 years now...I moved to Oakville recently with my sister so it's a lot less gas! lol!
I been with my gf for almost 3 years now...I moved to Oakville recently with my sister so it's a lot less gas! lol!
23-Jan-2004, 12:44 PM
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aaawww...well ya know, I had a long distance relationship for a couple of years. Actually, everything was perfect. I would go stay at her house or she would come here pretty much every weekend. If an anniversary or something fell on a weekday, then you just push it back to the next weekend. I mean, the day isnt the special thing, its significance of the time...not the actual day. Does that make sense?
The problem with that relationship actually started when she moved in with me. The good thing about long distance is that when u do see eachother you are a lot happier to see the other person. When u see someone every day in and out then i feel that the feelings arent as strong. that may just b me tho, but then again, look at divorce rates.
honestly, just b happy that u have found someone that u can love and b happy to b with...even if its not in person. If things were meant to be, u'll b together eventually.
my 2 cents.....
The problem with that relationship actually started when she moved in with me. The good thing about long distance is that when u do see eachother you are a lot happier to see the other person. When u see someone every day in and out then i feel that the feelings arent as strong. that may just b me tho, but then again, look at divorce rates.
honestly, just b happy that u have found someone that u can love and b happy to b with...even if its not in person. If things were meant to be, u'll b together eventually.
my 2 cents.....
23-Jan-2004, 12:53 PM
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Originally posted by Mirai Trunks
aaawww...well ya know, I had a long distance relationship for a couple of years. Actually, everything was perfect. I would go stay at her house or she would come here pretty much every weekend. If an anniversary or something fell on a weekday, then you just push it back to the next weekend. I mean, the day isnt the special thing, its significance of the time...not the actual day. Does that make sense?
The problem with that relationship actually started when she moved in with me. The good thing about long distance is that when u do see eachother you are a lot happier to see the other person. When u see someone every day in and out then i feel that the feelings arent as strong. that may just b me tho, but then again, look at divorce rates.
honestly, just b happy that u have found someone that u can love and b happy to b with...even if its not in person. If things were meant to be, u'll b together eventually.
my 2 cents.....
aaawww...well ya know, I had a long distance relationship for a couple of years. Actually, everything was perfect. I would go stay at her house or she would come here pretty much every weekend. If an anniversary or something fell on a weekday, then you just push it back to the next weekend. I mean, the day isnt the special thing, its significance of the time...not the actual day. Does that make sense?
The problem with that relationship actually started when she moved in with me. The good thing about long distance is that when u do see eachother you are a lot happier to see the other person. When u see someone every day in and out then i feel that the feelings arent as strong. that may just b me tho, but then again, look at divorce rates.
honestly, just b happy that u have found someone that u can love and b happy to b with...even if its not in person. If things were meant to be, u'll b together eventually.
my 2 cents.....
23-Jan-2004, 12:55 PM
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I did a Mississauga - Windsor LD relationship and **** yea it sucks donkey *****...which is why I live in Windsor now otherwise it just wouldnt have worked out...driving down here every 2 weeks or whatever really got hard and expensive...not to mention long distance phone calls etc etc. and its true, u always find the person at the wrong time...when I met my gf it was like 3 months before she was goin to windsor for school...and we did the LD thing for 2 years...that was rough!
sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt...being apart can make a bond grow or fall apart...there is always temptation around the corner and you have to overcome that (sometimes thats harder than the relationship itself)
good luck with everything and happy anniversary!
sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt...being apart can make a bond grow or fall apart...there is always temptation around the corner and you have to overcome that (sometimes thats harder than the relationship itself)
good luck with everything and happy anniversary!
23-Jan-2004, 01:11 PM
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relationships are tricky business period
it all depends why you are in the relationship, if its for sex... then forget about a LD relationship.
Just have faith and be good to each other, relationships take work no matter what.
it all depends why you are in the relationship, if its for sex... then forget about a LD relationship.
Just have faith and be good to each other, relationships take work no matter what.
23-Jan-2004, 01:28 PM
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my g/f lives in brampton and i live in pickering.
we both go to school fulltime and have part time jobs.
we see eachother 5 days a week at least.
we both drive.
anything can work if you want it to.
btw, we both have 3.0+ gpa's!
we both go to school fulltime and have part time jobs.
we see eachother 5 days a week at least.
we both drive.
anything can work if you want it to.
btw, we both have 3.0+ gpa's!
23-Jan-2004, 01:36 PM
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I met a guy once, who was here visiting from ireland (my dad was born in ireland, and our families knew each other) and he was going to stay with me because i was closest in age...and he was supposed to be here three months and he ended up staying six months so we could be together longer. We maintained a relationship for 4 months while he was in ireland and i was here, and then i went to ireland ot see him for almost a month, and after that visit we decided it was just too hard (talk about long distance phone bills) and we ended it. We still talk a few times a month and thank god for text messaging but it was a good thing... just a story for ya
23-Jan-2004, 01:39 PM
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we got to spend the christmas vacation with eachother..and we had our fights and our good times..i was worried about maybe the time spent together wouldn't work for us after the 3 months apart..but it was great ..and it showed me that what we have is worth the fighting for..sometimes tho..the feeling sets in when i just wanna give him a hug..it's not just about the sex..cuz i mean..ill be back in the summer..lol..but we understand eachother..which is why this anniversary is just more proof that we can handle it..i dunno..all that matters is i love him lol
23-Jan-2004, 01:40 PM
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B, when you complain too much, you are turning into an old man... (first Investment, now Relationship) and for the love of god, you are only 24 YO!~ LOL 
Heh
Well, I had a Brampton - Boston relationship and it was cool. Lasted 3 years and ended in 1998. I had been faithful but at the end, she left me for another guy. What can I say. I am a cheat-proof guy and any girl that goes out with me can have this peace of mind.
Wish you guys the best. Do some phone sex if you have to. Send each other nake pictures and....
I think I talk too much...
Heh
Well, I had a Brampton - Boston relationship and it was cool. Lasted 3 years and ended in 1998. I had been faithful but at the end, she left me for another guy. What can I say. I am a cheat-proof guy and any girl that goes out with me can have this peace of mind.
Wish you guys the best. Do some phone sex if you have to. Send each other nake pictures and....
I think I talk too much...
23-Jan-2004, 02:46 PM
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my g/f lives in montreal, but i have a killer work schedual, 6 on 3 days off so its no problem for me to see her and spend time together... plus it helps haveing a a few buddies that do the trip with that also have g/f there (well here lol... im in mtl right now, ladys at work so im killin time on TCC ) I love this place, the bars here rock! gonna make the move someday g/f or not...
so its no problem for me to see her and spend time together... plus it helps haveing a a few buddies that do the trip with that also have g/f there (well here lol... im in mtl right now, ladys at work so im killin time on TCC ) I love this place, the bars here rock! gonna make the move someday g/f or not...
23-Jan-2004, 04:31 PM
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did a markham-london ld thing for like a month...needless to say it didnt work out...not cuz of the distance, but cuz he's a jackass.
but now i have a bf that lives 10 min away...yay!
its soooo convenient...soooo niiiiice. sorry...dont mean to rub it in.
btw, happy anniversary miss perfect + ill civ
but now i have a bf that lives 10 min away...yay!
its soooo convenient...soooo niiiiice. sorry...dont mean to rub it in.btw, happy anniversary miss perfect + ill civ
23-Jan-2004, 05:45 PM
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WOW Surprise of a lifetime....haha WTF.....i come home from school, and i'm lookin to see if MISS PERFECT is online or anything.......her name is go check the TCC.....lol so i go and check it.....and i have a pm from her.....lol and then i check the boards . . and what do i find......THIS!!!!.....lol NICE NICE.....I LOVE IT!....MOST OF ALL I LOVE U TOO MISS PERFECT! OH AND I MISS U!....This is my first weekend in a month i haven't been with u......lol it'z gonna suck crap.....but i'll get through it.......lol
Yah long distance relationships always come at a bad time, MISS PERFECT AND I met after she had already decided to hit up NYC for school........sex is nothing to me, so i know we can make it last....sex is just the bonus u get from loving the girl that u feel deep down is worth everything.
HOTTNESS aka MISS PERFECT HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO U TOO!
LOL
LOVE YAH!
P.S. TCC THIS Reading week for those of u who are in college...Let'z take a 9hr cruise to NYC...haha jokes jokes but that'z basically the distance Miss Perfect and I are battling.....and i must say......WE OWN THAT ****.....lol Nothin Can Stop Us Now!
Yah long distance relationships always come at a bad time, MISS PERFECT AND I met after she had already decided to hit up NYC for school........sex is nothing to me, so i know we can make it last....sex is just the bonus u get from loving the girl that u feel deep down is worth everything.
HOTTNESS aka MISS PERFECT HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO U TOO!
LOL LOVE YAH!
P.S. TCC THIS Reading week for those of u who are in college...Let'z take a 9hr cruise to NYC...haha jokes jokes but that'z basically the distance Miss Perfect and I are battling.....and i must say......WE OWN THAT ****.....lol Nothin Can Stop Us Now!
