Inspired by the Model Car post in Media...
13-Oct-2005, 11:49 PM
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Inspired by the Model Car post in Media...
After seeing some of the comments about members being quiet, and not outgoing...make me want to ask..whats wrong with that? If you see a person being shy or quiet in a group setting, do you automatically single them out or??
I read some of those responses and it was funny how some people made it into a big deal why another person didn't socialize enough...when I am the exact same way...quiet, shy, don't say alot, but get to know me and it all changes..
/rant
I read some of those responses and it was funny how some people made it into a big deal why another person didn't socialize enough...when I am the exact same way...quiet, shy, don't say alot, but get to know me and it all changes..
/rant
14-Oct-2005, 12:31 AM
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i'm quiet too, anyone who has met me at the meets can vouch for that. i talk to a few people and drop in on others conversations. i'm too anti-social to try and talk to everyone at a meet nor do i want to.
14-Oct-2005, 07:15 AM
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Its funny, cause the one person that they were saying is so quiet, is quiet but he does talk once he opens up. at CSCS, I made stupid faces all day long with this guy and it was hilarious. I am the same though, once I am in a comfortable setting where I feel welcomed then I will start to open up a bit more, but until then, i am going to to look like a rude b*tch cause I wont talk very much!!!
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14-Oct-2005, 07:41 AM
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Before people get on other peoples backs there is more to the story. It is being taken care of and dealt with. All those involved are sorting out their issues.
As far as somebody being quiet....there's nothing wrong with being quiet. However, if you go to a meet or show or dinner or any kind of social gathering and one person asked another their name for the perpose of trying to include them in conversation, would you not find it rude if that person ignored them and refused to give their name?
Take a step further. What if you were to spend the entire day with them and they don't only not say much...they wonder off on their own all day?
Like I said, the issues are being handelled (I can't spell...too early LOL) by those involved.
Being quiet isn't a bad thing. Being shy isn't either.....kinda cute if it's a girl, as for guys...well....Contrary to what some of you have said, I don't swing that way LOL. But there does come a point when being quit can come of as being rude. IMO
As far as somebody being quiet....there's nothing wrong with being quiet. However, if you go to a meet or show or dinner or any kind of social gathering and one person asked another their name for the perpose of trying to include them in conversation, would you not find it rude if that person ignored them and refused to give their name?
Take a step further. What if you were to spend the entire day with them and they don't only not say much...they wonder off on their own all day?
Like I said, the issues are being handelled (I can't spell...too early LOL) by those involved.
Being quiet isn't a bad thing. Being shy isn't either.....kinda cute if it's a girl, as for guys...well....Contrary to what some of you have said, I don't swing that way LOL. But there does come a point when being quit can come of as being rude. IMO
14-Oct-2005, 08:00 AM
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It's probably hard to believe.....but when around new people....I'm quiet too.......LOL...seriosuely. I'm shy. Bet you guys wish I never got to know any of you then eh? LMAO
I think everybody...with the exception of that cracked out Rick guy who always wears the John Deer crap LMAO.
I think everybody...with the exception of that cracked out Rick guy who always wears the John Deer crap LMAO.
14-Oct-2005, 09:15 AM
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Originally posted by Nova_Dust
That's how I train my girls.
That's how I train my girls.
BAHAHAHHAAHA
i'm a shy guy as well. . .but once comfy like everyone else...u'll regret u even opened me up...i'm the most disgusting kid ever.
but hey i know when to respect ppl and what they'd be comfy with and such.. . .
Keep it open Hunney......Thaaaaat's ittttt........ LMAO
