Connie

so i have a couple that we hang out with ... They come over quite and bit and her and I are good friends, and him and dennis are good friends, well i have another friend who hates them.. and she said all this rude stuff about them to me, and now I feel bad because I know, the thing that makes it bad, is that the girl thinks the girl who said this stuff is her friend, and they go to their house tooo... so if they knew god would they feel stupid. and I feel like as a friend I shoudl say something, but then I feel like I dont want to get involved... what would you say is best.

thx

Double_B

Tell your friend that if she has something to say about the other friend, not to say it to you. It makes you feel uncomfortable and it's not fair to you. Just keep the two seperate.

Type_R Del Sol

try 2 get both of dem 2gether in da sheets

Connie

Yes I agree, my poor friend though, she thought the other girl was her friend... i would be so pissed... I'm not going to say anything, because I dont want to be the one to hurt her feelings.

LEITNER

tell the rude one not to be 2 faced. if she is saying stuff like that about this girl what is she saying about you when your not there?
run from people like that, they are not worth the hassle

Connie

Good point!!!!!

Double_B

LOL today on TCC Oprah........

Connie

yes, you can be oprah brian

imported_Bruce Fee

you hang out with two faced people why?

lots of friends of friends i don't bother saying hello to cause i don't like them. hahaa

Connie

Well I didnt know she was two faced.

imported_jonny_emo

i'd say if the one continues to talk dirt about one person....either let it got though one ear and out the other....and just tell them to not say anything to your about the other person....but it is also true "what would they be saying about you?" people in general can always be two faced....hence why you only keep the best of them the closest!

imported_TuttiGirl

Brian = Boprah lol, I agree with them Connie, how do you know she's not talking shyt to the other girl or other people about you, most ppl that talk about other ppl behind their backs are chicken shyt and would never say it to their face. Those kind of people are toxic, you dont need them in your life, drop them! Stop talking to her, sometimes you need to cut those kind of ppl off at the knees, and if she asks you why your not talking to her, tell her you dont like the way she treated your friend and that you and the other girl deserve more respect than that.

Ok I've said my piece now lol

imported_Bruce Fee

but now you do.

Double_B

Next week on Boprah, men who shave their legs and women who don't

spracingsports

Slap her really hard and yell at her for insulting your friend. Then call her a Bitch..... It works wonders.

imported_TuttiGirl

I spat my apple out I laughed so hard LOL

imported_hdave

dont worry about it, jsut chill and dont say nothing to no one and pretend u dont know nothing
u aitn involved so let them be

Connie

Thanks guys!! (and Mandie) (and Boprah)

I think I am just goin to stop talking to her (the rude one) obviously I didnt know she was like that, and I dont want to be involved if the other girl finds out. She would be crushed, the things the rude girl was saying were SO RUDE, like and then she says, I dont want her to find out because I think it might hurt her feelings... ummm... obviously its going to hurt her feelings....

Thanks you guys are the B-E-S-T!!!!

Connie

I nearly choked on my Halls.

RajunCajun

Ask her why she would think that way. See if you can change her mind about it, as well as explaining that it upsets you that she thinks that way. Try to rectify her thinking, if that doesn't work or she doesn't want to try and understand. Cut her off, she'll understand.