white92d15b7

K well here is the story !!! Two and a half years ago I had a daughter with Hilarie,a girl I was with for four years. We had an agreement over child support and visitation!!! at one point we attempted to get back together and that didn't work out but in the process we each ripped up our copy of the agreement. Now she is with this new man and they are moving in together and she wants me out of Maielle's (My-Elle), my daughter's, life trying to let this new man take over my fatherly responsibilities, which im not going to let happen it has been 2 weeks since I have seen Maielle. Hilarie won't answer her phone, won't return my calls, she is demanding a couple months of back child support at her new updated price which is way more than I can afford and untill I pay her up to date this crazy amount of cash she won't let me see Maielle. My parents have been giving her money every week like 50 bucks to help out and they buy Maielle tonz of stuff, They are also being cut off in visitation untill Hilarie recieves this money!!!!! as for about the last 6 months Hilarie has been slowly weening me off seeing Maielle, Hilarie always seems to have her busy doing this and that. So anyway any thoughts , advice (legal/personal), anyone going through similar **** im really looking for some help here I feel its time to take care of this the legal way because obviously Hilarie can't be a mature adult about all this and she wants me to help finance her new life with this man !!!! but anyway id just appreciate some thoughts or help in getting this process underway i don't know where to start!!!!

*edited to add this*- Im looking to get my daughter every other weekend and one weekday/evening overnight, and a more fair number for child support than what she is demanding-

And anyone who is going to post what a bitch this girl is or bad stuff please don't im looking for constructive help not bashing the Ex session!!!!

Thanks

Trystan

imported_Team Rukus

well put it this way.
if the court ruled that u can have visitation rights and some custody of her u are entitled to it.
if she does not let ur child be with u on the dates that ur supposed to see her and be with her u can take her to court and get ur ex wife in some good ****.
this is a free process and you dont have to pay for it.
also your wife cannot ask u for any amount of money that should be owed to her UNLEss it is the set amount in the court ruling.

give her a notice to appear in court and you can go on from there.

SoccerNut

I have not seen my daughter in 4 years . My ex up and took off and I can't find her or my daughter. I actually am going to go through some legal stuff right now. I have a friend that might be able to help you if you need it. She is a para legal and she is helping me. She is very good.

Mirai Trunks

I would speak to a para legal like civicsrule said...avoid a lawyer if possible. Asking on this board will not give you any useful insight. Each situation is different and different results come from every case. But you should go through the court system. I hope you and your family get to see Maielle on a regular basis. This must be a hard time for you and your parents...I wish you the best of luck.

imported_~ILLEST CIV~

Court is ur friend . .. Like Mirai Trunks said each individual situation is different, without giving out a lot of personal information out on this board, the best ansewer ur gonna get is take it to court, which is the best advice. There are soo many variables etc. . to be taken into consideration.
Talk with a confident repudable paralegal, and tell him/her the situation and he/she will ask all the appropriate questions...and u'll be set. . . .

white92d15b7

i am going to court on monday im going to the newmarket court house to start the paperwork or whatever i need to do !!!!!! thanks civicsrule i will be in touch with that lady tonight !!!!!!

n1_taboo

good luck brotha, show this bs, that u a man, and ur takin urs......good luck, if u need the tcc ppl at court for support holla....holla

imported_gatherer

Dude enough is a enough get a lawyer and go for full custody.... yes thats right go for full custody and have your ex pay the child support...

(no offense but I did say this when going out too and coming back from Alberta )

get a lawyer and send her a notice of intent (from the lawyer)

imported_kIeRaN

Goodluck trystan, i hope it all works out for ya!

Chigga1

i hopoe things work out for you man.
at least your doing the right thing.....

imported_blkzc

I got two kids and I dont know what I'd do if my girl tried to take them. I feel for ya man hope it works out for your sake and Elle's.

Middlemiss

iTrader: (2)

Just be the best you can.. do as much as possible for your daughter. The court always sides with the woman unless there is a reason..

imported_MartinGouda

www.wantedposters.com

dont be one of these....

imo the best thign to do is offer to aid her in anyway you can and if more is asked for then ask her to explain why..most moms can't

white92d15b7

its ok i went and started the paperwork today!!!!! just waiting on a few pieces of documentation from me and everything will be on the go!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i have a hard time believeing that the courts will side with her and not allow me to see her i have done nothing wrong in this situation!!!!!! she is the one not letting me see my daughter cuz she wants more money and i don't'can't afford to give it to her!!!!!! its all good soon things will work out just fine thanks for everyone's help and especially you civicsrule that was a great help what you did for me !!!!!

Thanks again everyone!!!!!!!!

SoccerNut

No problem bro just looking out for you and your daughter. Hope everything works out.