Bust His Ass or Not?
11-Jul-2004, 04:42 PM
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Bust His *** or Not?
So I was seeing this guy for like a month and everything was great.We saw each other every other day and talked everyday. We made plans for a vacation and both booked time off work etc. I talked to him tuesday night and he asked me to come over for his birthday on thursday and said he missed me etc and couldn't wait to see me. So I call him Wed and he doesn't return my call. All of a sudden I haven't heard from him since. His roomate lies and says he's not home when he logs on and off MSN like I'm stupid.The problem is I lent him some money (about $400) to put a payment on a car until his next paycheck came in. I need that money for an upcoming payment and I have no way of contacting him because he will not respond to anything (not MSN, not email, not cell phone and not house phone) So I am really pissed off with this whole issue and want to call his house and leave a message on his machine saying that if I don't have my money in 7 days I am calling the cops and telling them all about the drugs he is growing in his house. Does anyone think this is a cheap way of getting over a guy? He seriously screwed me and you shouldn't hussle a hussler.. so I say get even. What do you think?
11-Jul-2004, 04:57 PM
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u dont have any friends that are enforcers??? teach him a lesson, as for cops... its ur word agaisnt his, and if he does grow drugs then thats a rat movement... and i still dont know why u trusted him soo much... 400 is alot of money. If u were a tru hussla u would have lent him with a 50% interested ratio.
but good luck
but good luck
11-Jul-2004, 04:59 PM
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Originally posted by CyniKal.Mindset
u gotta prove that u lent him the money in small claims court, the cops wont do jack!
he hustled ur ***!
u gotta prove that u lent him the money in small claims court, the cops wont do jack!
he hustled ur ***!
11-Jul-2004, 05:06 PM
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okay, Kathryn...honestly bout 90% of guys are jack asses and if u didnt know this now you know...this dude never loved you and if he did he would man up take ur calls...like it takes somekind of weak *** **** to not talk to somebody after they jooked em...I can empathize with your heart ache and all that but I cant with your ignorance....like how long was yall goin out? couldnt have been that long if dude dont care **** for you...I was with my girl for over 3 years so I was comfortable lending her 300+bucks cuz I know here like I know myself if not better...hopefully u can get the money back soon and if not chalk this up as a learning experience
lotsa people deal with this daily, so dont feel alone
lotsa people deal with this daily, so dont feel alone
11-Jul-2004, 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by CyniKal.Mindset
okay, Kathryn...honestly bout 90% of guys are jack asses and if u didnt know this now you know...this dude never loved you and if he did he would man up take ur calls...like it takes somekind of weak *** **** to not talk to somebody after they jooked em...I can empathize with your heart ache and all that but I cant with your ignorance....like how long was yall goin out? couldnt have been that long if dude dont care **** for you...I was with my girl for over 3 years so I was comfortable lending her 300+bucks cuz I know here like I know myself if not better...hopefully u can get the money back soon and if not chalk this up as a learning experience
lotsa people deal with this daily, so dont feel alone
okay, Kathryn...honestly bout 90% of guys are jack asses and if u didnt know this now you know...this dude never loved you and if he did he would man up take ur calls...like it takes somekind of weak *** **** to not talk to somebody after they jooked em...I can empathize with your heart ache and all that but I cant with your ignorance....like how long was yall goin out? couldnt have been that long if dude dont care **** for you...I was with my girl for over 3 years so I was comfortable lending her 300+bucks cuz I know here like I know myself if not better...hopefully u can get the money back soon and if not chalk this up as a learning experience
lotsa people deal with this daily, so dont feel alone
Dr. Phil Cynikal
11-Jul-2004, 05:11 PM
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if your coming to the meeet tonight, maybe we can cruise to his house instead of downtown. maybe he'll give the money if you show up with like 10 dudes!
sorry to hear about this though, what a ****in jackass.
sorry to hear about this though, what a ****in jackass.
11-Jul-2004, 05:13 PM
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Cynikal.Mind ->^^ I knew that. I'm not stupid. I've seen girls played by guys many times before. This time it just took me by surprise. I didn't think that guy was this smart. Who knew? I'm cool though. I can pick up a new guy in like 24 hours or less...lol I just wanted some sweet revenge. On the brighter side though... the sex was crap anyways so I'm not cryin about that...OH SNAP!
11-Jul-2004, 05:15 PM
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Someone needs to send a message to him....You know where he lives right?
Sorry to hear about your loss, but as everyone else is saying, you need proof that you lent him money, in order for you to go to small claims court.
Sorry to hear about your loss, but as everyone else is saying, you need proof that you lent him money, in order for you to go to small claims court.
11-Jul-2004, 05:16 PM
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Originally posted by CyniKal.Mindset
okay, Kathryn...honestly bout 90% of guys are jack asses and if u didnt know this now you know...this dude never loved you and if he did he would man up take ur calls...like it takes somekind of weak *** **** to not talk to somebody after they jooked em...I can empathize with your heart ache and all that but I cant with your ignorance....like how long was yall goin out? couldnt have been that long if dude dont care **** for you...I was with my girl for over 3 years so I was comfortable lending her 300+bucks cuz I know here like I know myself if not better...hopefully u can get the money back soon and if not chalk this up as a learning experience
lotsa people deal with this daily, so dont feel alone
okay, Kathryn...honestly bout 90% of guys are jack asses and if u didnt know this now you know...this dude never loved you and if he did he would man up take ur calls...like it takes somekind of weak *** **** to not talk to somebody after they jooked em...I can empathize with your heart ache and all that but I cant with your ignorance....like how long was yall goin out? couldnt have been that long if dude dont care **** for you...I was with my girl for over 3 years so I was comfortable lending her 300+bucks cuz I know here like I know myself if not better...hopefully u can get the money back soon and if not chalk this up as a learning experience
lotsa people deal with this daily, so dont feel alone
Well said Cynikal..
11-Jul-2004, 05:33 PM
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since u are "hustla" urself...go on and get whats urs and dont come here and complain...real pimps do the biznass first and brag after not complain and look for answers elswhere...do what u have to do to get whats urs...and I guess u needed the wake up call cuz u thought u were smarter than he was but I guess he showed you where you stanf and where he stands in the game, you gotta learn some more and perfect your style, go get a new man and use what u know now to better protect urself...u must be sexy as hell to claim u can get a guy in no time so work that and do it up!
11-Jul-2004, 06:21 PM
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Do the psycho bitch move and stalk him and harass him until you get what you want...
And blackmail is always a good idea too if it will work...
Thats why you shouldnt lend out money ESPECIALLY THAT MUCH without an i.o.u
And blackmail is always a good idea too if it will work...
Thats why you shouldnt lend out money ESPECIALLY THAT MUCH without an i.o.u
11-Jul-2004, 06:28 PM
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Originally posted by SilverCRXSi
I'd rat him out. LOL
Well if small claims courts didn't work out...
Hey money is money, business is business.
Then again I don't lend out money, I'm too cheap!
Good luck!
I'd rat him out. LOL
Well if small claims courts didn't work out...
Hey money is money, business is business.
Then again I don't lend out money, I'm too cheap!
Good luck!
