Before or After ?
02-Dec-2003, 02:00 PM
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Before or After ?
Should sex wait till before or after marriage ?
Give some pro's and con's of both..........
Give some pro's and con's of both..........
02-Dec-2003, 02:05 PM
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Before ... best to knoiw if your compatitable before wasting money tieing the knot then wasting money to un-tie the knot
02-Dec-2003, 02:07 PM
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Before...
A healthy part of a relationship is how "well" and "how" you make love.
A healthy part of a relationship is how "well" and "how" you make love.
02-Dec-2003, 02:08 PM
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before!!!!!
would you buy a car without test driving it?
or a house with out an inspection????
Now, in saying that - if my wife ever saw this post she would kill me!
would you buy a car without test driving it?
or a house with out an inspection????
Now, in saying that - if my wife ever saw this post she would kill me!
02-Dec-2003, 05:54 PM
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if theres no sex on the first date theres no second date
02-Dec-2003, 06:00 PM
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Originally posted by PunkInDrublic
if theres no sex on the first date theres no second date
if theres no sex on the first date theres no second date
02-Dec-2003, 06:01 PM
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Originally posted by Brisk20
that's what i said to your sister... and seemingly there was a second date... and a third... and a fourth...
that's what i said to your sister... and seemingly there was a second date... and a third... and a fourth...
i bet your girlfriend would love to hear that your cheating on her
02-Dec-2003, 06:09 PM
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There shouldn't be a set time for anything. If a person feels that they are ready for sex, then by all means, they should do it.
Pro's: you get to know yourself and your partner on a more intimate level
you get more experience for the wedding night
Con's: you may be going against societies values, depending on your religion(and how deep your faith is in your family) you may suffer severe reprocutions from relatives
- if one is promiscuous, there is a greater chance for contracting and spreading STD's that could lead to death and infertility
-some people may not be ready for sex and do it too soon, which really affects self esteem in the long run
There are seriously so many pro's that it seems silly to write them all... How about..it feels really good and everyone should be able to experience that if they're ready..but i have to run, so i hope i helped a little bit
Pro's: you get to know yourself and your partner on a more intimate level
you get more experience for the wedding night
Con's: you may be going against societies values, depending on your religion(and how deep your faith is in your family) you may suffer severe reprocutions from relatives
- if one is promiscuous, there is a greater chance for contracting and spreading STD's that could lead to death and infertility
-some people may not be ready for sex and do it too soon, which really affects self esteem in the long run
There are seriously so many pro's that it seems silly to write them all... How about..it feels really good and everyone should be able to experience that if they're ready..but i have to run, so i hope i helped a little bit
02-Dec-2003, 07:12 PM
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An ex-g/f of mine has a sister that's currently 18 or something and has 2 kids. ANyways... she had her first kid when she was 14! Holy jesus... and her first and second kid are with 2 different fathers.
02-Dec-2003, 07:20 PM
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Everything needs a test drive before purchase...
02-Dec-2003, 08:20 PM
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so ur still a virgin?
02-Dec-2003, 08:21 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA
02-Dec-2003, 08:21 PM
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oops..im sorry i didn't mean to let that slip
02-Dec-2003, 08:22 PM
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ok im giving up..cuz this is just sounding worse and worse..im sorry..lol
02-Dec-2003, 08:27 PM
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For christmas.. I'm gonna provided my dearest friends with gift cards from THE STAG SHOP.
02-Dec-2003, 09:18 PM
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dont studys show, that marriges are more sucsessful when the couples wait...or is that for waiting to move in together..
i donno...all i know is i couldnt wait lol sex is how a couple makes up, imagine all the grudges without sex! lol
i donno...all i know is i couldnt wait lol sex is how a couple makes up, imagine all the grudges without sex! lol
02-Dec-2003, 09:26 PM
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My friend and his girlfriend have fights all the time and she TRIES to deny him sex but she always ends up wanting it too. It's funny watching them bitch at each other and then "making up" after.
It's like a real life soap opera!
It's like a real life soap opera!
02-Dec-2003, 09:30 PM
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I think I would have pleaded insanity if I had to wait until im married to have sex, that's just physically impossible for me
02-Dec-2003, 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by NoSpleeny
It's funny watching them bitch at each other and then "making up" after.
It's funny watching them bitch at each other and then "making up" after.
so you watch your buddy bang his girl??
02-Dec-2003, 10:08 PM
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that's because you know what its' like....^^
there is the VAS (virgin attachment syndrome) which could work in yoru favor when yoru marries
but seriosuly if you save yoruself for your "one true love" and "give yoruself" to them then I guess that could be "special"...I guess now I sound like a gay
there is the VAS (virgin attachment syndrome) which could work in yoru favor when yoru marries
but seriosuly if you save yoruself for your "one true love" and "give yoruself" to them then I guess that could be "special"...I guess now I sound like a gay
