More Girlfriend Problems.....Ppl Are Probably Gettin Tired Of These Threads..lol
05-Oct-2003, 11:14 PM
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More Girlfriend Problems.....Ppl Are Probably Gettin Tired Of These Threads..lol
Guys...i told myself from the beginning of time.......that i'd never tell anyone my problems ever.....and u know what.......i can't believe i'm doing this......but okay, This girl and i are g/f & b/f.....one problem......I ABSOULETLY THINK THE WORLD OF HER!....like never has a girl made me feel this way ever.......and now she'z goin to school in NYC, and i'm stuck here in Brampton......THA JOYS of life....lol so anyway....like i know i'm faithful to her......like i haven't hit on one girl yet......and i dunno....like i trust her a lot.......and i like her a lot.....but sometimes i get doubts about......what if she'z falling for some other guy....then just about 10mins ago...she called me....and she told me.....that she likes some other guy....but she said she still likes me alot.....and i dunno guys....lol what should i do....what do i do?........like.....it'z weird......i like her soo much....and now for all i know she could be playin me for the ****** SWAN I AM!....haha Side note for those who took that animal test thing.......hahaha anyway guys advise or comments....pleez throw them at me!
05-Oct-2003, 11:15 PM
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Also.....she'z making me think.....am i that great of a guy to wait for?........like.....i dunno........common guys opinons comments anything..........
05-Oct-2003, 11:22 PM
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if she likes another guy and she says she still likes u alot that is bullshit it jus means she doesnt know how to say its OVER.
girls do that cuz they figure us guys will get the point.
lol
if i were u i would get with her and **** her brains out as much as possible and then let her break up wit u that way she will feel like **** cuz she broke up wit u and u jus got sum *****. and u can use this excuse for ur next girl say how ur ex brok eup wit u for another guy
girls do that cuz they figure us guys will get the point.
lol
if i were u i would get with her and **** her brains out as much as possible and then let her break up wit u that way she will feel like **** cuz she broke up wit u and u jus got sum *****. and u can use this excuse for ur next girl say how ur ex brok eup wit u for another guy
06-Oct-2003, 12:02 AM
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if she likes some other guy then ur in trouble... NYC is a far enuff distance for a gurl to be cheating on a guy.... i'm sorry to say this men but she might be cheatin fa real.
if she was as good as a person as u.. she wouldn't be liking the next man. u need to find out from her if your wasting your time waiting... find out if she's as serious about you as u are about her, cos if it aint mutual then your wasting your time.
if she was as good as a person as u.. she wouldn't be liking the next man. u need to find out from her if your wasting your time waiting... find out if she's as serious about you as u are about her, cos if it aint mutual then your wasting your time.
06-Oct-2003, 12:55 AM
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wtf
u guys are a couple and she likes someone else?!
wtf
thats BS man
hey, dont stress over it..
that gets u no where
u guys are a couple and she likes someone else?!
wtf
thats BS man
hey, dont stress over it..
that gets u no where
06-Oct-2003, 01:13 AM
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Listen . Play it cool, be the nice guy - "even though nice guys always finish last" But trust me in the end you will be on top. (of her ) LOL..
Just be cool about it. And find someone local for the time being.
These things happen everyday! How old are you btw?
Joe
Just be cool about it. And find someone local for the time being.
These things happen everyday! How old are you btw?
Joe
06-Oct-2003, 02:03 AM
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From my exp when a girl says that. End it beofre you get hurt worse.
When one of my Exs cheatedon me it ripped me apart. **** got even more fucked up after we broke up....I stopped talk to her and seeing her altogether and my problems are gone.
When one of my Exs cheatedon me it ripped me apart. **** got even more fucked up after we broke up....I stopped talk to her and seeing her altogether and my problems are gone.
06-Oct-2003, 02:19 AM
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Oh man, I've been in your situation not too long ago. Except my girlfriend actually broke up with me over it.
Put it this way man, she doesn't know how much you mean to her. In the end its how you take it, its your choice. My ex and I are still tight, and I can picture myself with her with the rest of my life, but right now I'm too insecure about that other guy that everytime I think about it it pisses me off
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You don't wanna go through what I'm going through, my advice is to let her go cause in the end that's what you're gonna be doing...unless you go under the whip.
If you really care about her, let her go, if she comes back to you, just keep her close until you feel you're ready to take her back. Don't rush things and know that it's nothing about you.
My ex actually told me that the new guy that she was liking was a lot better guy than I was and how she wanted to go out with him. But then again she said how she could picture us being together forever but not them being together forever.
Now I got 4 girls chasing me (most in which I'm interested in too) while she's alone and waiting for me to call her cause she loves me so much. Plus I wanna be with her but I get so angry about the fact that she liked some other guy and was about to just drop me, when I felt so strongly about her (pisses me off so much, I only wish I knew how to forget about it so I can move on but I can't). Plus the fact that the guy lives in Boston and was visiting, and after he left she came back to me. So I don't know how she feels.
Messed up situation no? Take what you can from my story. I standing by my point that I'm young and I'm gonna have my fun.
Relationships are for chumps and women are not to be trusted.
BTW: Yes I'm still boning her.
Put it this way man, she doesn't know how much you mean to her. In the end its how you take it, its your choice. My ex and I are still tight, and I can picture myself with her with the rest of my life, but right now I'm too insecure about that other guy that everytime I think about it it pisses me off
.You don't wanna go through what I'm going through, my advice is to let her go cause in the end that's what you're gonna be doing...unless you go under the whip.
If you really care about her, let her go, if she comes back to you, just keep her close until you feel you're ready to take her back. Don't rush things and know that it's nothing about you.
My ex actually told me that the new guy that she was liking was a lot better guy than I was and how she wanted to go out with him. But then again she said how she could picture us being together forever but not them being together forever.
Now I got 4 girls chasing me (most in which I'm interested in too) while she's alone and waiting for me to call her cause she loves me so much. Plus I wanna be with her but I get so angry about the fact that she liked some other guy and was about to just drop me, when I felt so strongly about her (pisses me off so much, I only wish I knew how to forget about it so I can move on but I can't). Plus the fact that the guy lives in Boston and was visiting, and after he left she came back to me. So I don't know how she feels.
Messed up situation no? Take what you can from my story. I standing by my point that I'm young and I'm gonna have my fun.
Relationships are for chumps and women are not to be trusted.
BTW: Yes I'm still boning her.
06-Oct-2003, 09:19 AM
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long distance **** just don't work unless you keep it on a hit-it-when-you-see-it basis. don't get all caught up in it, it's not worth it. unless you feel like getting married, which I don't think you do. don't trip over her saying she likes someone else, she could be testing your trust 
girls like to do that... or she really does, in which case you can't do anything about it.
girls like to do that... or she really does, in which case you can't do anything about it.
06-Oct-2003, 10:10 AM
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if she likes another guy and she says she still likes u alot that is bullshit it jus means she doesnt know how to say its OVER.
girls do that cuz they figure us guys will get the point.
lol
if i were u i would get with her and **** her brains out as much as possible and then let her break up wit u that way she will feel like **** cuz she broke up wit u and u jus got sum *****. and u can use this excuse for ur next girl say how ur ex brok eup wit u for another guy
girls do that cuz they figure us guys will get the point.
lol
if i were u i would get with her and **** her brains out as much as possible and then let her break up wit u that way she will feel like **** cuz she broke up wit u and u jus got sum *****. and u can use this excuse for ur next girl say how ur ex brok eup wit u for another guy
06-Oct-2003, 10:52 AM
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she likes someone else?
doesnt that gives any hint?
or u think ur still loving couples.....
doesnt that gives any hint?
or u think ur still loving couples.....
06-Oct-2003, 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by bbarbulo
long distance **** just don't work unless you keep it on a hit-it-when-you-see-it basis. don't get all caught up in it, it's not worth it. unless you feel like getting married, which I don't think you do. don't trip over her saying she likes someone else, she could be testing your trust girls like to do that... or she really does, in which case you can't do anything about it.
long distance **** just don't work unless you keep it on a hit-it-when-you-see-it basis. don't get all caught up in it, it's not worth it. unless you feel like getting married, which I don't think you do. don't trip over her saying she likes someone else, she could be testing your trust
girls like to do that... or she really does, in which case you can't do anything about it.
I agree!! Unless you are going to get married to this girl, then I wouldn't sweat it. If she tells you she likes someone else, well, at least she told you!!
I would've moved on by now but tap it when she comes back into town.
Moral of the story: Move on!!
06-Oct-2003, 11:39 AM
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This relationship is over. Even if you guys get back together a couple years down the road, it ain't gonna be the same no more.
Let it go. You like her a lot, and chances are, you will find someone else you like even more. She ain't the last woman on earth.
Let it go. You like her a lot, and chances are, you will find someone else you like even more. She ain't the last woman on earth.
06-Oct-2003, 11:48 AM
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word of advice.. long distances dont' work...
if you have doubt, that alone is a good enuff reason for your relationship to part... imo..
let her go... plenty of fish in the sea.. gauranteed..
if you have doubt, that alone is a good enuff reason for your relationship to part... imo..
let her go... plenty of fish in the sea.. gauranteed..
06-Oct-2003, 12:34 PM
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Long Distance = Long Gone !! lol
06-Oct-2003, 01:08 PM
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Re: More Girlfriend Problems.....Ppl Are Probably Gettin Tired Of These Threads..lol
Originally posted by ~ILLEST CIV~
......I ABSOULETLY THINK THE WORLD OF HER!....like never has a girl made me feel this way ever.......like i know i'm faithful to her......like i haven't hit on one girl yet......
......I ABSOULETLY THINK THE WORLD OF HER!....like never has a girl made me feel this way ever.......like i know i'm faithful to her......like i haven't hit on one girl yet......
I'd say don't sweat it, if you love is true then you will persevere. Although long distance relationships are pretty difficult, if both of you make it work then it does work. Then if she's some cheating ho then don't sweat it either coz at least you found out now rather than later!
06-Oct-2003, 02:05 PM
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oh oh... another bit of wisdom.... you only like (or love) a person cuz you had the OPPORTUNITY to get to know them... if they were a stranger on the street you may think they are hot, but you won't love her. So in other words, if you go out and meet other girls, you may also find that you LOVE them as well 
so stop living a sheltered life and get out there meet some more girls as this one is likely a gonner.
so stop living a sheltered life and get out there meet some more girls as this one is likely a gonner.
06-Oct-2003, 02:32 PM
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Originally posted by Team Rukus
if she likes another guy and she says she still likes u alot that is bullshit it jus means she doesnt know how to say its OVER.
girls do that cuz they figure us guys will get the point.
lol
if i were u i would get with her and **** her brains out as much as possible and then let her break up wit u that way she will feel like **** cuz she broke up wit u and u jus got sum *****. and u can use this excuse for ur next girl say how ur ex brok eup wit u for another guy
if she likes another guy and she says she still likes u alot that is bullshit it jus means she doesnt know how to say its OVER.
girls do that cuz they figure us guys will get the point.
lol
if i were u i would get with her and **** her brains out as much as possible and then let her break up wit u that way she will feel like **** cuz she broke up wit u and u jus got sum *****. and u can use this excuse for ur next girl say how ur ex brok eup wit u for another guy
SO NOT TRUE! SHe most definitely still really likes you..but when she is that far away...she obviously wants to be with soeone..and u just dont happen to be there...it is very possible to really like someone but like someone else too...
06-Oct-2003, 02:46 PM
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why do people even bother with dating???
dude long distance relationships don't last I was in one with a chick from baltimore (I even went down there as her date to her senior prom) and in the end we sat down and realized how hard is it to say in contact (and in love) when the distance is between us. dude do the right thing and let her go but do so gently.
dude long distance relationships don't last I was in one with a chick from baltimore (I even went down there as her date to her senior prom) and in the end we sat down and realized how hard is it to say in contact (and in love) when the distance is between us. dude do the right thing and let her go but do so gently.
